FAQs
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Be prepared to talk about anything that has been on your mind from the past/present, as well as anything that you are afraid about for the future. By not holding back and being bold to ask me questions that are really important to you, I can do my best to try and help you with it.
Be prepared for disappointment, and to not hear everything to be the way you wish for or dream of. A healthy acknowledgement that life isn’t always one upward straight line but more of a complex bumpy curving road will help you to stay focused in our session so I can give you the things you need to hear, rather than just want to hear.
Unlike other readers you may find, I will be telling you all the possible scenarios that can manifest based off what I can see on your chart. I will not try to act omniscient and play ‘God’ and pretend I know everything that will come. I have experienced the harm that comes from that first-hand by many readers who have made a prediction on my chart with confidence. only for another possible scenario they didn’t mention to be playing out. This is done for confidence buy-in, so that they seem expert-godlike if they get it right, instead of listing the 5 or more different possibilities that actually exist. If the given prediction doesn’t play out, it causes the client much unnecessary rumination and harm as they ready themselves for the outcome that was predicted but doesn’t happen. I disagree with this style of reading and will always give you as much information as I can and say all the outcomes that can manifest so that in time you may see one or a few of the outcomes I named to be playing out in reality. If you have a session with me and wait to see some of the possible outcomes I made play out, I think you will see in time that they aren’t a random spitfire of possibilities, but eerily accurate to that which actually occurs.
An example of what I might say: For the month of May you may experience an issue with the law, or your job, you may want to quit it or change it or you may have conflict with your spouse. If it is none of the above, it could also be that you suffer a head injury, have trouble sleeping, or experience an accident or cut related to metal. Or if you have child, there may be an issue showing up there.
Often a client will come back to me saying that 1, 2, or all that I said occurred in an unimaginable fashion. But this way I give you the most heads up possible for you to prepare yourself for any outcome I list and to be not so destabilised or in shock when it happens.
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Honestly, just ask me anything and I can tell you in the moment if that is something I can answer it or not from reading your chart!
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The gist & more is written here :)
But essentially I hope to do things a little different to other BaZi/SaJu chart readers who have more of a cold-hearted, transactional experience.
I intend to hold the space for you during our interaction, as I believe the practice of chart reading should be treated more as a sacred sharing of compassionate love and respect for each others lives. I try to hold the energy of acknowledgement that we are both two souls living out this conscious experience on this earth just trying our best, albeit with different paths and character make ups, but still having the ability to empathise with each other pains, suffering, and disappointments, as well as being ecstatic to cheer on each others successes and moments of happiness that come along our paths.
I prefer this over the typical egoic chart reader interaction of- ‘Look at me I’m so powerful I know so much about you without knowing you, and know what’s going to happen in your life. Be mesmerised by me, human, and form a certain dependency on me so you keep paying me money and can't make any decision without consulting me.'
I find this method of chart reading toxic, evil, and disempowering. Unfortunately, this is the practice of chart reading which is more commonly found.
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Friendly, casually, with an air of humour/grace and mutual respect that acknowledges the uncontrollable nature of life- as if we are simply two pot plants next to each other floating in the water, learning and experiencing things day by day mutually as we look up and marvel at the weather changing above.
Though everything will be handled professionally, I would rather have a fun and relaxed session with you that is light-hearted and with the spirit of love, friendship, and understanding, compared to than one that is serious, cold, and transactional.
Learning about this ancient art/science has given me so much depth of insight into the lighter and darker aspects of life. By spending greater time everyday sitting between both of these polarities as I read, feel, and empathise with all the positive and negative aspects in others charts, I have begun to live life more in the middle, viewing lightness and darkness as a balanced whole.
If you are able to do the same, I invite you to join me with this viewpoint for our sessions, viewing our lives with compassion and grace.